It was my first time in my new practicum for the semester. After getting thoroughly lost in the winding halls of the high school, I walked into the classroom only to find that we would shortly be turning around and leaving for the computer lab. Mrs. Ellis informed me that the students were working on résumés, cover letters, and follow-up letters to help them when they began to search for jobs. She also introduced me to her para-educator, Mrs. Paxton, who is there to aid the students in the class that are part of the special education program.
Once we were in the computer lab, I noticed one student in particular, we'll call him Kyle, who was not working on anything pertaining to the class. Instead, he was focusing on playing one of the games from The Legend of Zelda series on what I believe was a Game Boy Advance emulator. Mrs. Paxton and I approached Kyle and asked him to work on the assignment, but he ignored us even after I told him, "Link will still be there when you're done with your work." Needless to say, he did not work on any of the assignments for the remainder of the class period.
Fast-forward to the next class period, where Kyle is once again playing The Legend of Zelda. I notice Mrs. Paxton having a chat with him and overhearing bits and pieces of it, I realize that it is a conversation I should probably stay out of. I heard Kyle say things like "I give up" and it broke my heart a little. Once Mrs. Paxton finished talking to him, I asked her if he was just having a rough time. She explained to me that he's been in foster care his entire life and that the number of homes he has been in is crazy. Every time he gets into any kind of trouble, he is moved to a new home.
This information hit me like a ton of bricks. I have come to realize that I honestly have no idea how to handle this. He's practically given up on school, but he tells me things like, "I'm smart, I just procrastinate a lot." What am I supposed to do? I have no experience with students that have such a rough home life history. I hate watching him waste his time in class by sleeping, playing video games, or distracting other students, but I don't want to push him too hard. Ever since that day when I found out about him being a foster child his entire life, I have left him for Mrs. Ellis and Mrs. Paxton to deal with. I just hope I'm doing the right thing.